Yes, your release is late.
Yes, the bugs are piling up.
Yes, you have code that needs to go out the door.
Yes, your chats are blowing up with everyone and anyone messaging you.
Getting angry, chippy, or frustrated doesn’t help the problem and doesn’t help your team.
Be the calm within the storm.
The release will go out, the more bugs that are found the better the quality, your code will see the light of day and your chats will die down when you get over this hump.
Lead your team through it.