You have two choices in failure.
Accept and move forward.
Stew about it, get mad at it, live in it, always relate to it.
You can look at those two statements and say – “I’m definitely #1” – but many people are not, #1 is who we want to be, but can’t, #2 is who many are.
Take the time to stew about it, take the time to think, not too long though, because you need to move forward – we don’t need you living in it, you’re better than that.