The heavy work doesn’t lift itself.
It can’t happen without you pushing up against it, nudging it, moving it, and eventually lifting it.
If everyone could do it, everyone would be doing the heavy lifting, but everyone can’t.
You can fed up with the heavy work, frustrated, angry, and ticked off at it. You can yell and scream at it and see how that goes.
Or you can figure it out, find a solution, move forward and past it.