Sure, things change daily, no two days are alike. But if your job is changing daily, constantly, ever hour, every day, every week . If all this change is happening with no explaination, no reason – then this is a cover for not knowing why it’s changing, where it’s changing, who’s causing the change and what the justification for it is. Change is good, it’s great, but if you don’t know why, it’s bad.
It might not be perfect, you might not be ready, and you might have missed your preparation window. But it’s still your return, don’t waste on what coulda, woulda, shoulda been. Jump in and make it yours.
Admit it, you don’t know it all. No one does. We all want to. But no one does. And that’s why, at any stage of your life, you need a teacher. Someone to learn from. Someone to point out your mistakes. Someone to help you grow and get better. Don’t be a know-it-all, get a teacher and keep learning.
You have two choices in failure. Accept and move forward. Stew about it, get mad at it, live in it, always relate to it. You can look at those two statements and say – “I’m definitely #1” – but many people are not, #1 is who we want to be, but can’t, #2 is who many are. Take the time to stew about it, take the time to think, not too long though, because you…
Heard this from a friend the other day in regards to not getting something you wanted. You have two choices for you respond. Tell me why I didn’t get what I wanted? Tell me what I have to do to get what I want? One puts the blame on others, the other puts the growth and accountability on you. Which do you want to be?