Try a new thing it fails. Start again it fails. Start again and again it fails. When we try to reform habits we always want to “Get it Right” this time and we “know more” than we did before so push ourselves harder, we institute more constraints, we push ourselves to do more and more hoping that the clicking moment will happen this time for sure. The first step in any habit is showing up…
Sure, things change daily, no two days are alike. But if your job is changing daily, constantly, ever hour, every day, every week . If all this change is happening with no explaination, no reason – then this is a cover for not knowing why it’s changing, where it’s changing, who’s causing the change and what the justification for it is. Change is good, it’s great, but if you don’t know why, it’s bad.
You are here. That is it, right now you are here. You want to get to some other point, over there. I could draw it out, but everyone’s drawing would be different – “you are here, you want to get to there (maybe you even need to)”. Do you know the steps to take to get there? Do you know what has to be done to get there? Are you willing to invest in each…
One Step Forward, Two Steps Back, Three more to the side and you do another lap. If you then jump up and over you might have a better chance. Better yet, we learned a long time ago on a Lion Hunt, that you couldn’t go around it, over it, under it but had to go through it. There are no clear paths, except the one you make for yourself. Follow your own path and don’t…
You have two choices in failure. Accept and move forward. Stew about it, get mad at it, live in it, always relate to it. You can look at those two statements and say – “I’m definitely #1” – but many people are not, #1 is who we want to be, but can’t, #2 is who many are. Take the time to stew about it, take the time to think, not too long though, because you…